Throughout the different stages in my life, I’ve had so many different perspectives on love. It was so hard to cope with all the heart breaks, tears, back stabbing, one night stands, and broken dreams that I went through back in my childhood till this very day. There were so many times where I thought that certain girl was the one. But to my findings, those many girls were just merely stepping stones. I’ve always looked at my ex-girlfriends as stepping stones. Just like how I look at obstacles. Without those obstacles or stepping stones, You would’nt be the person you are today. The things you pick up from those old relationships you use to better yourself and your knowledge in life. The older I got the more I forgave. I don’t hate any of my ex-girlfriends. Hate is such a strong word, I use that word very carefully. Your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend are human beings too just like yourself. It’s just trial and error until you find your sole mate. I personally believe in the soul mate theory. I believe that there’s that certain person in the world that was put here for you. And you have your life to find that person. Your sole mate is that person that believes in you and everything you stand for, wrong or right that person has your back. I’ve been married for 3 years now, and I have never doubted my love for my wife.
In my experiences, you will know who that person is the minute you see each other. It will be instantaneous. Of course there will always be that one person that you think about no matter how many years have passed. It’s only natural, that person is called your first love. I don’t care who you are, everybody has a first love. I have a first love, I won’t lie and from time to time I do think about her. But it does not compare to anything I have now. I remember when I spoke to my father about love when I was a young boy. He brought up this word to me that is usually used when there is infatuation involved. The word is puppy love. Infatuation is totally different from love. Infatuation usually involves physical attraction. Believe me, there is a total difference. Emotion’s and feelings are things you should take seriously. I’ve been through it all, name it, I’ve probably have been in that relationship, of course though i’m talking about male and female relationships. Not to say that gay love is bad. I’m not saying that at all. I think love is love no matter who that person is. Love is something you die for. Love is something that you would go to the ends of the earth for. Love conquers all feelings in my opinion. No matter what kind of mood you are in, love will take over. To finish this blog I will leave you with a quote for you to think about........" In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything and two minus one equals nothing. "
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